Living Well with FND book cover — Understanding, Surviving, and Rebuilding Life with Functional Neurological Disorder by Matthew Gerdes-Hansen
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Living Well with FND

Understanding, Surviving, and Rebuilding Life with Functional Neurological Disorder

A compassionate guide for sufferers, carers, families and loved ones — through emotional storytelling, practical strategies and honest reflections for the hardest days.

  • Author: Matthew Gerdes-Hansen
  • 25 chapters · non-fiction
  • Proceeds support FND CONNECT CIC

You are not alone in this

Living with Functional Neurological Disorder can feel frightening, exhausting and deeply misunderstood.

For many people with FND, the hardest part is not only the symptoms — the seizures, fatigue, pain, weakness, sensory overload and uncertainty — but the loneliness of trying to explain an invisible condition to a world that often does not understand.

Living Well with FND explores the reality of living with FND while offering support, validation and hope. It is not a miracle-cure book. It is a reminder that even inside uncertainty, life can still hold meaning, connection and hope.

“You are not broken. You are surviving something incredibly difficult.”

Inside the book

What you’ll find across the 25 chapters — for people with FND, carers, families and loved ones.

Real-feeling composite stories

Stories inspired by the FND community — so the loneliness of an invisible condition feels named, not minimised.

Practical tools

Pacing, regulation and symptom-management strategies you can use on ordinary and hard days.

Emotional support

Guidance for grief, fear, identity loss and emotional exhaustion — without toxic positivity.

Rebuilding life

A compassionate path toward more safety, understanding and meaning inside uncertainty.

Themes you’ll meet inside the book

Across the full 25 chapters, the guide returns again and again to experiences like these — for people with FND, carers, families and loved ones.

  • The Life That Changed Overnight
  • The Fear Nobody Sees
  • Living Inside Unpredictability
  • The Grief of Losing Yourself
  • When Your Body Stops Feeling Safe
  • The Exhaustion Nobody Understands
  • Hypervigilance and Survival Mode
  • The Isolation of Invisible Illness
  • The Weight of Being Disbelieved
  • Learning to Pace Without Shame
  • Seizures, Fear, and Recovery
  • Nervous System Overload
  • Rebuilding Trust in Yourself
  • Building a Life Your Nervous System Can Trust
  • Hope Without False Promises
  • To The Person Reading This

This page is information about a book published by FND Connect. It is not medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always follow the guidance of your clinical team.

Published by FND Connect · Understanding. Support. Community.

Why this book exists

Matthew Gerdes-Hansen founded FND CONNECT CIC after watching people he loves face Functional Neurological Disorder with almost nowhere practical to turn. This book is part of that mission: plain-English education, lived-experience honesty, and a path that funds real-world support.

Matthew Gerdes-Hansen

Author of Living Well with FND and founder of FND CONNECT CIC (Company No. 17313147). Built FND Connect so people living with FND — and the people who love them — can find clear information, practical tools such as SeizeControl, and a charitable path toward mobility aids and therapies.

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