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Personal stories, practical reflections and honest notes about living with Functional Neurological Disorder. New guides now cover sleep, symptom hangovers, heat and seizure thresholds, driving rules, sensory overload, neurodivergence, hypermobility, hormone tracking, emergency symptoms, PIP, work adjustments, pacing, relationships and diagnosis.

A tired person at a home rehabilitation table with a resistance band, diary, water and walking stick while a supportive professional sits nearby
By Matthew G. Recovery and identity

"You Can Recover" — Hopeful, or Another Pressure on People With FND?

Hope matters. But when recovery is presented as an expectation rather than a possibility, people whose FND symptoms persist can be left feeling blamed, judged or as though they have failed treatment.

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By Matthew G. Relationships and isolation

"Where Did Everyone Go?" — The Friendships FND Changes or Ends

FND does not only change bodies and routines. It can change who calls, who keeps inviting you, who believes you and which friendships are able to adapt when life becomes unpredictable.

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A calm person sitting in a dental chair holding a stress ball, with a supportive dentist in the background and noise-canceling headphones nearby.
By Matthew G. Practical health guidance

FND and the Dentist: Navigating Dental Care with Functional Neurological Disorder

Dental care can be particularly daunting when managing FND symptoms. Bright lights, loud drills, and vibrations can act as significant triggers. A practical guide to navigating dental appointments, fostering better communication, and advocating for reasonable adjustments for a safer and more comfortable experience.

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By Matthew G. Travel and mobility

Can I Fly With FND? Air Travel, Pressure Triggers and Cabin Crew Letters

Flying with Functional Neurological Disorder is not a simple yes or no. The useful question is whether your current symptom pattern, pressure sensitivity, airport load and recovery plan make this journey manageable today.

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A tired person sitting by a mirror with headphones, a symptom diary, medication organiser, paperwork and a folded walking stick nearby
By Matthew G. FND stigma and self-doubt

FND and the "Am I Faking It?" Spiral

FND can make you doubt your own reality. Not because the symptoms are fake, but because fluctuating symptoms, normal tests, stigma and disbelief can teach you to question yourself before anyone else gets the chance.

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A parent sitting at a kitchen table with headphones, notebook, blanket and walking stick nearby while two teenagers are in the background
By Matthew G. Parenting and sensory overload

Parenting Teenagers With FND: Guilt, Overstimulation and Boundaries

When you have Functional Neurological Disorder, parenting can become a sensory and emotional balancing act. You can love your children deeply and still need distance from the noise, arguments and intensity that teenagers sometimes bring.

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By Matthew G. Living with FND

The FND Good-Day Problem: Why Looking Better Doesn't Mean You're Better

A good day with Functional Neurological Disorder can still be a carefully managed day. It can mean planning, pacing, masking, aids, recovery time and a cost that other people do not see.

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A tired person sitting on a bed at dawn with water, a notebook and a bedside sleep routine
By Matthew G. Sleep and symptom threshold

FND and Sleep: Why a Bad Night Can Lower Your Symptom Threshold

Poor sleep can reduce the spare capacity your nervous system has to stay regulated. Here is how to plan the next day with FND.

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A person resting at a kitchen table with a blanket, tea, planner and recovery notes after a busy day
By Matthew G. Pacing and recovery debt

The FND Symptom Hangover: Why One Busy Day Can Cost Three Days

One busy day can create a delayed FND flare. Learn how recovery debt works and how to plan activity without feeding boom-and-bust cycles.

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A person planning hot weather pacing with water, a fan, a cooling towel and a symptom tracking notebook
By Matthew G. Heat, pacing and seizure tracking

FND and Heat: Hot Weather, Functional Seizures and Staying Cool

Heat is not just uncomfortable for many people with FND. SeizeControl evidence shows that rising environmental temperature can lower the nervous-system threshold for functional seizures, tics, tremor and overload, making forward planning essential when the forecast climbs.

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A person reviewing driving and medical paperwork with a clinician outside a health clinic, with a parked car nearby
By Matthew G. Driving and safety

Can You Drive With FND? DVLA Rules and Functional Seizures

FND symptoms vary hugely, so UK driving rules are not applied by the diagnosis label alone. They are applied by the symptom, the risk, the licence group and whether you can drive safely today.

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By Matthew G. Sensory overload and overlap

FND, Sensory Overload, Neurodivergence and Hypermobility

Why autism, ADHD, hEDS, HSD, sensory overload and functional neurological symptoms keep coming up in the same conversations - and how to make the overlap useful without over-claiming it.

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By Matthew G. Safety planning

FND Flare or Medical Emergency? A Safety-First Guide

A practical guide to deciding when symptoms fit a familiar FND flare and when they need urgent medical help because they are new, sudden, severe or different.

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A person reviewing a seizure tracking app beside a symptom notebook, medicine organiser and period calendar
By Matthew G. Hormones and seizure tracking

FND, Periods, Perimenopause and Seizure Tracking

A practical guide to noticing patterns around periods, perimenopause, menopause and functional seizures without turning every symptom into a hormone explanation.

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A person planning benefits evidence at a kitchen table with a wheelchair in the background
By Matthew G. Benefits and mobility

FND and PIP Benefits: UK Support, Evidence and Mobility Help

A practical guide to PIP, Adult Disability Payment, benefits checks, Blue Badge, Motability and mobility support when Functional Neurological Disorder affects everyday life.

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A worker and manager reviewing a workplace adjustment plan at a desk
By Matthew G. Work and rights

FND and Work: Reasonable Adjustments, Sick Leave and Access to Work

What to ask for, what your employer should consider, how sick leave works, and where to get help when FND starts affecting your job.

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A woman sitting on a sofa holding a mug in a calm living room
By Emma W. Personal story

Finding Out I Had FND

"I knew something was wrong... but nobody could explain it."

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A tired couple holding hands at home while supporting each other
By Matthew G. Relationships and caregiving

Loving Someone With FND: The Partner No One Sees

The emotional reality of being a partner, not just a caregiver.

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FND Connect Pacing Not Racing social post about rethinking productivity with FND
By Matthew G. Pacing and daily life

Pacing Guide: Pacing Not Racing With FND

A practical guide to finding your pacing sweet spot: doing what matters while protecting energy for later.

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